Frustrated, we search in close quarters. The ex who lied. The parent who withheld love. The friend who betrayed a secret. The boss who took credit. These are personal betrayals, and in the heat of memory, they feel like the worst crime ever committed. We rehearse the indictments in our heads. But if we are truly searching, we must also recall the time we stayed silent when a coworker was bullied. The time we took the last cookie without asking. The time we told a “harmless” lie that wasn’t harmless to the person who believed it.
It’s you. It’s me. It’s all of us, on our very worst days. Searching for- the worst person in the world in...
And if you are honest—if you have really looked in the mirror, in the comment section, in the history book, in the memory of your own quiet cruelties—you know that person. Frustrated, we search in close quarters
We tell ourselves the worst person is obvious. It’s the tyrant behind the podium, the executive who signed away safety for a bonus, the stranger who kicked the dog. Evil, we insist, has a face we would never recognize as our own. It has a foreign accent, a different flag, a set of beliefs we find repugnant. The worst person is out there . And so we set off, armed with moral certainty, to find them. The friend who betrayed a secret