Searching For- Harakiri In- -
For me, that search started with two syllables: ha-ra-ki-ri. In the West, “harakiri” is a gothic noun—a shock word, a trigger warning. We pair it with ritual or honor or brutal . But in Japanese cinema, especially in Masaki Kobayashi’s 1962 masterpiece Harakiri (original title: Seppuku ), the word is less an act than a question. When is death the only honest answer left? I went looking for harakiri not because I wanted to die. I went looking because I wanted to know what it feels like to choose an ending so total that it retroactively gives meaning to everything before it. The Search Itself 1. In the Archive I started with books. Hagakure . Mishima’s Runaway Horses . The police records of the 47 rōnin . What I found was not romance but paperwork—harakiri as administrative procedure. The second cutter ( kaishakunin ) who stands behind you, sword raised, waiting for you to reach for the tantō. You don’t have to kill yourself. You just have to begin . The rest is mercy.
You are not looking for a blade. You are looking for permission. Permission to end the thing that is killing you slowly—a relationship, a job, a story you told yourself about who you had to be. Searching for- harakiri in-
There is no plaque. No monument. Just wet stone and a bicycle leaning against a wall. For me, that search started with two syllables: ha-ra-ki-ri
What lie am I serving? Kyoto, 6 a.m. Rain on cobblestones. I had flown there on a credit card’s worth of points, telling no one. I walked to the alley behind Kennin-ji temple, where legend says a 14th-century warrior once opened his stomach in protest of a corrupt shōgun. But in Japanese cinema, especially in Masaki Kobayashi’s
And that, I realized, was the point.
Put down the tantō. Pick up the resignation letter. The breakup script. The first page of a new novel.
Then walk out into the tall grass. The wind is waiting. Harakiri (1962), dir. Masaki Kobayashi (Criterion Collection) Further reading: The Chrysanthemum and the Sword – Ruth Benedict (for context, not answers) Further feeling: “What would I do today if I had decided, last year, to stop lying to myself?” Have you ever searched for “harakiri” in your own life—not as violence, but as honesty? I’d like to hear your version. Drop a comment or reply to this newsletter.