The film walks a careful tightrope. It avoids the trap of making Claire a villain. She’s smart, sensual, and genuinely confused by her boyfriend’s clinical approach to intimacy. Their disastrous attempt at sex—complete with a condom that might as well be a live grenade—is one of the most painfully funny and honest scenes in the genre. It captures the gap between what we think we should want and what we actually feel.
In the pantheon of teen coming-out comedies, Alex Strangelove (2018) occupies a specific, awkward, and utterly recognizable niche. Directed by Craig Johnson and released on Netflix, the film doesn’t try to be the next Love, Simon —a glossy, heartfelt anthem. Instead, it’s a smaller, messier, and surprisingly sharp exploration of what happens when a meticulous, type-A high school senior realizes that his carefully planned future doesn’t fit his heart. Alex Strangelove
At its center is Alex Truelove (Daniel Doheny), a name that feels almost cruelly ironic. Alex is a good student, a good boyfriend, and a good son. He and his equally charming girlfriend, Claire (Madeline Weinstein), have designed the perfect senior year roadmap: lose their virginity to each other in a scheduled, tasteful, low-pressure “sex weekend.” For Alex, a self-proclaimed "planner," this is the logical final step. The problem is that Alex has been looking at sex as a checkbox, not a feeling. The film walks a careful tightrope